Very proud of you boy!

During the Eastern Canada Leather Sir and boy competition on Feb 18th, 2012.

photo courtesy of Master Chuck’s Alpha slave Eric
 

A suprised and teary eyed boy iain accepting the “Boy’s Spirit Award” presented in memory of Andrew MacDonald, Eastern Canada Leatherboy 2005, who passed away in July 2011 following a battle with cancer. The Boy’s Spirit Award was presented to ECLb’11 boy iain, in recognition of his outstanding commitment to the leather community, player’s lifestyle, and educational outreach and volunteer work.

 

 Very proud of you boy.

 

 

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Eastern Canada Leather SIR and boy 2012 Announced

Congratulations Thug Rocco and boy, Alex Eastern Canada Leather SIR and boy 2012

As you will see the theme this year was Retro

Eastern Canada Leather SIR and boy getting to know each other photo Courtesy of Master Chuck's Alpha slave Eric

 

There were many great moments during the competition.

Here’s a few more along with some family photos.

(All photos courtesy of Master Chuck’s Alpha slave Eric)

 

 

 

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In less than 48 hours I will be stepping down as Eastern Canada Leather Sir

For the past year I have had the privilege  of being Eastern Canada Leather SIR for 2011, In less than 48 hours I will be stepping down as Leather SIR. On Monday I will be sharing my step down speech and many more previously un-seen photos of my title year.

If you can please support Eastern Canada Leather SIR/boy Contest by attending the 2012 Contest Weekend events.

Weekend Events
MEAT & GREET
10pm. Fri, Feb 17. Black Eagle Toronto (457 Church St).
Meet and mingle with contestants, judges, out-of-town guests and visitors.

EASTERN CANADA LEATHERSIR/LEATHERBOY 2012 CONTEST
presented by Steamworks, the official ECLSb bathhouse!
Doors 12:30pm; contest 1:30pm sharp! Sat, Feb 18. Goodhandy’s (120 Church St, at Richmond).
Popular and always entertaining Tom Stice returns as emcee. Contestants will be judged in four categories: Interview; Speech/Image; Physique; and Leather Sex Fantasy based on the region’s assigned theme. The 2011 contest fantasy theme will be “Retro.” The interview is a private meeting prior to the contest with the panel of judges; other categories take place on stage during the contest.
Admission: $10

VICTORY BRUNCH @ CHURCHMOUSE & FIRKIN
11am-2pm. Sun, Feb 19. Churchmouse & Firkin (475 Church Street).
Saturday night survivors will be up in time for the butchest brunch in town. Join the new ECLSb titleholders at a special ECLSb VICTORY BRUNCH at the Churchmouse & Firkin. Since 2009, the Churchmouse & Firkin has been an important Community Partner with ECLSb. The 2012 contest weekend will mark the 4th ECLSb Victory Brunch held at the pub.
SQUEAL! MEN’S SEX PARTY
2pm. Sun, Feb 19. Steamworks (540 Church St, Level 2).
The weekend event with the most sex and sweat! A sexy sequel to previous successful ECLSb parties held at Steamworks, the official ECLSb bathhouse. Regular club admission fees & rules apply; discount admission passes will be available throughout the weekend at ECLSb events.

 

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Are you the next Eastern Canada LeatherSIR / Leather boy for 2012??

Could you be the next Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/boy?

If you’re a resident of:

  • Newfoundland & Labrador
  • Nova Scotia
  • Prince Edward Island
  • New Brunswick
  • Québec
  • Ontario

YOU could be eligible!  Check out :

February 18th, 2012 – 12:30pm – Goodhandy’s

 

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Rough house play, saddle bondage gear, and much more… This Sunday Jan 29 @ Goodhandy’s

Jan 29th will be not only rough house, but also a great opertunity to pick up seldom seen bondage gear. If you would like  a personal demo of how to use a saddle for bondage just ask me.

Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy is having a Leather & Gear Sale at this edition of Rough House. The gallery below is a (small) selection of some of the gear available – more items will be posted in the coming week. Leather gear, rubber hoods, vintage bar t-shirts and more..

All proceeds benefit the 2012 ECLSb travel fund.

 

ALL DONATIONS ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED!

We’re gratefully accepting donations of all types of leather/gear/fetish wear and toys (new & used) for the ECLSb Leather & Gear Sale. No items are too big or too small!

Lots of bargain hunters, especially younger leather folk, depend on the kindness of strangers!

Did holiday presents bring you new leather gear? Or maybe you’ve started your New Year’s resolution to clean out your dungeon and toy box now?

If so, please remember the needy and sexually greedy and drop us a note!

In with your new toys and gear! Out with the old!

For more information or to arrange a donation drop-off or pick-up, please emailBrandon@LeatherSirCanada.com or call 416-356-2716.

 

 

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Blogs from other members of my Leather Family

Master Aaron’s blog

 

 

 

boy iain’s blog

 

Grand boy matt’s blog

 

 

 

LeatherSon Chris’ blog

 

Kink Dan’s blog

 

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A new Leather blog written by one of our family members Master A

Master Aaron  has been a member of my Leather family for over 8 years has a new blog which has many insights into our leather world. I hope you give his blog a read.

US MASTER A.COM

Click here to be directed to his blog

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It’s time to play in Toronto Canada

This weekend!
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ROUGH HOUSE @ STEAMWORKS
Sunday, January 22. 2pm-7pm.
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The Rough House gang is taking it’s popular dungeon party to Steamworks for
a special leather party today, Sunday, January 22, from 2pm-7pm.

Public leather & BDSM play * Watersports area * Demos

Come early! The last two Rough House events at Steamworks were very popular: at both events rooms sold out by 3pm!

Steamworks is the Presenting Sponsor of all Rough House events
Lots of frisky fun, great music and hot leather sex.
Regular club fees and rules apply.
Check out more about our Rough House events at www.RoughHouse.ca

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ROUGH HOUSE EVENTS
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Rough House is held at Steamworks and Goodhandy’s
Check our website for events each month through until April
www.RoughHouse.ca
Steamworks is the Presenting Sponsor of all Rough House events

 

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How to help the partner of your sub feel more comfortable

I recently come across a post on Fet Life by tampa1223  in the Ask a Dominant group.

Here is her original question reprinted with her permission.

“This question is for those Masters out there who own married slaves. What ideas do you have to make the husband feel included and feel that there is something in it for him in order to avoid jealousy and feelings of being “left out?” Cuckoldry ideas are welcome, but wondering if there are other creative, kinky ideas out there that would be fun for all. Any ideas and experiences you can share are greatly appreciated.”

Here is my reply, in its entirety

I recently collared a male slave who is married to another male who is also a Dom but not his Dom.

For me it was important for the slave to know that when he was in service to me, he did not have to worry about his primary relationship. On the part of the of the slave’s husband, he needed to be assured that his spouse was safe.

During the initial negotiations, I insisted on chatting then meeting with the spouse, have him involved, and have his concerns addressed in the contract. He was also asked to be the slave ‘s witness.

In my family, all spouses of subs are invited to my leather family events. this again helps to build trust. To me the worst thing would be for a spouse to know his partner is going off to play with a Dom unknown to them.

I also have a clause in some of my contracts that permits spouses to be involved in play scenes but on an informed and controlled basis.

Before the scene, I would speak privately with the spouse to inform him of what I intend to do, and what the sub’s expected reactions are.

The spouse would have a run through on the risk managements strategies I use to keep the scene safe(r) and then discuss what involvement the spouse would have if any. I do insist that I be the one leading the scene and the after care. By doing so the partner sees how his spouse is cared for.

It has happened that the spouse has also become a collared sub of mine. This also causes complications especially when one sub is more advanced than the other.

If any of you are interested in seeing a copy of my contracts, just send me a note.

 

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Mr. Leather Ottawa, Seminars, Friends, Electro-Torture and A Few Photos

On Nov 11, 12 & 13 I attended Mr. Leather Ottawa’s Techno Kink Weekend with my boy iain and my SIR in Training Sir David. It was a great opportunity to spend some time catching up with old friends, acquaintances and former boys.

This year boy iain and I taught electro-play and electro-torture. I have come to realize I enjoy teaching, sharing, and making eyes light up when participants see what they have fantasized about happen in front of them.

When we teach our Electro seminar we go through the various toys and safety rules NEVER ABOVE THE WAIST and how to isolate from the power grid. After the general presentation to the full group, the group was then split into two distinct tracts. boy iain does E-Stimulation and I do Electro-torture. This time around I used a Lady Wolf’s boy as a demo bottom.

I suspect the worst part for my demo subs is my twisted humor, the first part coming up to the nude exposed demo bottom with  a cattle prod so that he can hear the buzz to which of course he reacts (so do the seminar attendees), then putting the cattle prod directly on his balls without warm up or advance notice, looking him in the eyes and saying “tell me to turn it on boy”. Watching him swallow and with some residual fear in his eyes and saying “please turn it on Sir”.

He hears the buzz so does the crowd, then I say  that it’s only my dummy one, wanna try a real one…

I point out to the audience that to many electricity is feared and can als0 be used as a major mind fuck.

The demo bottom was then fastened to my CBT bondage chair in such a way that there was still much movement. Part of my seminar shows how to make your own electrodes at a fraction of the cost of store bought, This also fits in to electro torture interrogation scenes as it looks very crude and better simulates a hostage interrogation scene.

In this case braided wires similar to that which can be extracted from old cable TV cable was used. Balls wrapped in such a way to separate them with the equivalent of a shoe lace, then each nut had wire braid wrapped around them forming two electrodes. Then my Kareeouchi also known as SOUNYPlaistationOuch (note I have intentionally misspelled this to avoid kids from googling my blog) was hooked up. The unit is basically a microphone, a “souny home stereo amplifier and a special box I have made which steps up the voltage when connected to the speaker terminals for you geek out there look up 70 v speaker systems.

Now the evil part, the first question to his surprise was “did you ever have the clap” … for those of my generation, its the same as asking in public have you ever had the a sexually transmitted disease, to which of course he replied “NO Sir”, to which I said to the audience “Well in that case lets give him the clap”. Holding the microphone forward, I got the attendees to clap their hands … of course he responded with spasms. As with all subs, he has a birthday which in this case was about a month ago. Having forgotten his SIR’s and his anniversary it was a great opportunity for payback. Lady Wolf and all sang happy birthday to YOU, to much more squirming. Then the boy was presented with a cupcake with two candle and told to blow them  out. Of course the microphone with the amplifier cranked was placed just behind the candles. Despite this he was able to blow them out and almost pushed himself off the ground …… YUM. Houston, we have partial lift off.

Participants were also shown how easy it is to make or pervert electrodes. A garage sale cutting board once washed and sanitized can be covered with metal duct tape with a wire attached to the handle becomes a electrode that can be put under butt cheeks, under bare feet for standing, a lint trap used for washing machines to prevent drains from clogging looks like a condom that you could roll onto a dick. Scouring pads used for cleaning dishes can be fitted under butt cheeks, and when used with a butt plug can cause involuntary self fucking. Metal chip bag clips are great for ball sac attachments. Metal filleting gloves give that hands-on touch to your play.

At dollar stores you frequently find copper and brass “steel wool”.  The way its supplied makes it easy to use like a ball stretcher … The list can go on and on – the only restriction is your imagination and conductivity and of course never above the waist.

One of the items that most also find expensive is electro conductive gel, a simple solution is to use lube – a non silicone is preferred, the trick is to add salt. For a 16 oz bottle I recommend 1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon of salt dissolved in 1-2 teaspoons of warm water then thoroughly mixed into the bottle of lube. Be sure to label the bottle, as fucking with salted lube is sure to burn.

During the rest of the seminar I concentrated on the use and managing of 3 different cattle prods, how they differ in manufacturing and circuitry and the differences on how they feel as a result. I also showed how to warm up a sub by creating voltage dividers with hankies and showing how a prod can be modified to reduce the voltage, making some of them adjustable.

The second seminar I presented was titled Risk Management Is Not Only For The Workplace. In this seminar several participants were guided through risk management theory and then risk managed a typical day to day scenario involving typical home dungeon spaces and real life.

If you have a interest in electro play or electro torture please feel free to contact me.

Unfortunately most of the photos did not turn out – here are the ones that were recoverable.

More photos will be available soon on the MLO website. When they are up, I will post a direct link here.

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