Could you be the next Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/boy?
If you’re a resident of:
- Newfoundland & Labrador
- Nova Scotia
- Prince Edward Island
- New Brunswick
- Québec
- Ontario
YOU could be eligible! Check out :
February 18th, 2012 – 12:30pm – Goodhandy’s
Could you be the next Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/boy?
If you’re a resident of:
YOU could be eligible! Check out :
February 18th, 2012 – 12:30pm – Goodhandy’s
Jan 29th will be not only rough house, but also a great opertunity to pick up seldom seen bondage gear. If you would like a personal demo of how to use a saddle for bondage just ask me.
Eastern Canada LeatherSIR/Leatherboy is having a Leather & Gear Sale at this edition of Rough House. The gallery below is a (small) selection of some of the gear available – more items will be posted in the coming week. Leather gear, rubber hoods, vintage bar t-shirts and more..
All proceeds benefit the 2012 ECLSb travel fund.
We’re gratefully accepting donations of all types of leather/gear/fetish wear and toys (new & used) for the ECLSb Leather & Gear Sale. No items are too big or too small!
Lots of bargain hunters, especially younger leather folk, depend on the kindness of strangers!
Did holiday presents bring you new leather gear? Or maybe you’ve started your New Year’s resolution to clean out your dungeon and toy box now?
If so, please remember the needy and sexually greedy and drop us a note!
In with your new toys and gear! Out with the old!
For more information or to arrange a donation drop-off or pick-up, please emailBrandon@LeatherSirCanada.com or call 416-356-2716.
Master Aaron has been a member of my Leather family for over 8 years has a new blog which has many insights into our leather world. I hope you give his blog a read.
Click here to be directed to his blog
This weekend!
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ROUGH HOUSE @ STEAMWORKS
Sunday, January 22. 2pm-7pm.
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The Rough House gang is taking it’s popular dungeon party to Steamworks for
a special leather party today, Sunday, January 22, from 2pm-7pm.
Public leather & BDSM play * Watersports area * Demos
Come early! The last two Rough House events at Steamworks were very popular: at both events rooms sold out by 3pm!
Steamworks is the Presenting Sponsor of all Rough House events
Lots of frisky fun, great music and hot leather sex.
Regular club fees and rules apply.
Check out more about our Rough House events at www.RoughHouse.ca
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ROUGH HOUSE EVENTS
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Rough House is held at Steamworks and Goodhandy’s
Check our website for events each month through until April
www.RoughHouse.ca
Steamworks is the Presenting Sponsor of all Rough House events
Here is her original question reprinted with her permission.
“This question is for those Masters out there who own married slaves. What ideas do you have to make the husband feel included and feel that there is something in it for him in order to avoid jealousy and feelings of being “left out?” Cuckoldry ideas are welcome, but wondering if there are other creative, kinky ideas out there that would be fun for all. Any ideas and experiences you can share are greatly appreciated.”
Here is my reply, in its entirety
I recently collared a male slave who is married to another male who is also a Dom but not his Dom.
For me it was important for the slave to know that when he was in service to me, he did not have to worry about his primary relationship. On the part of the of the slave’s husband, he needed to be assured that his spouse was safe.
During the initial negotiations, I insisted on chatting then meeting with the spouse, have him involved, and have his concerns addressed in the contract. He was also asked to be the slave ‘s witness.
In my family, all spouses of subs are invited to my leather family events. this again helps to build trust. To me the worst thing would be for a spouse to know his partner is going off to play with a Dom unknown to them.
I also have a clause in some of my contracts that permits spouses to be involved in play scenes but on an informed and controlled basis.
Before the scene, I would speak privately with the spouse to inform him of what I intend to do, and what the sub’s expected reactions are.
The spouse would have a run through on the risk managements strategies I use to keep the scene safe(r) and then discuss what involvement the spouse would have if any. I do insist that I be the one leading the scene and the after care. By doing so the partner sees how his spouse is cared for.
It has happened that the spouse has also become a collared sub of mine. This also causes complications especially when one sub is more advanced than the other.
If any of you are interested in seeing a copy of my contracts, just send me a note.
On Nov 11, 12 & 13 I attended Mr. Leather Ottawa’s Techno Kink Weekend with my boy iain and my SIR in Training Sir David. It was a great opportunity to spend some time catching up with old friends, acquaintances and former boys.
This year boy iain and I taught electro-play and electro-torture. I have come to realize I enjoy teaching, sharing, and making eyes light up when participants see what they have fantasized about happen in front of them.
When we teach our Electro seminar we go through the various toys and safety rules NEVER ABOVE THE WAIST and how to isolate from the power grid. After the general presentation to the full group, the group was then split into two distinct tracts. boy iain does E-Stimulation and I do Electro-torture. This time around I used a Lady Wolf’s boy as a demo bottom.
I suspect the worst part for my demo subs is my twisted humor, the first part coming up to the nude exposed demo bottom with a cattle prod so that he can hear the buzz to which of course he reacts (so do the seminar attendees), then putting the cattle prod directly on his balls without warm up or advance notice, looking him in the eyes and saying “tell me to turn it on boy”. Watching him swallow and with some residual fear in his eyes and saying “please turn it on Sir”.
He hears the buzz so does the crowd, then I say that it’s only my dummy one, wanna try a real one…
I point out to the audience that to many electricity is feared and can als0 be used as a major mind fuck.
The demo bottom was then fastened to my CBT bondage chair in such a way that there was still much movement. Part of my seminar shows how to make your own electrodes at a fraction of the cost of store bought, This also fits in to electro torture interrogation scenes as it looks very crude and better simulates a hostage interrogation scene.
In this case braided wires similar to that which can be extracted from old cable TV cable was used. Balls wrapped in such a way to separate them with the equivalent of a shoe lace, then each nut had wire braid wrapped around them forming two electrodes. Then my Kareeouchi also known as SOUNYPlaistationOuch (note I have intentionally misspelled this to avoid kids from googling my blog) was hooked up. The unit is basically a microphone, a “souny home stereo amplifier and a special box I have made which steps up the voltage when connected to the speaker terminals for you geek out there look up 70 v speaker systems.
Now the evil part, the first question to his surprise was “did you ever have the clap” … for those of my generation, its the same as asking in public have you ever had the a sexually transmitted disease, to which of course he replied “NO Sir”, to which I said to the audience “Well in that case lets give him the clap”. Holding the microphone forward, I got the attendees to clap their hands … of course he responded with spasms. As with all subs, he has a birthday which in this case was about a month ago. Having forgotten his SIR’s and his anniversary it was a great opportunity for payback. Lady Wolf and all sang happy birthday to YOU, to much more squirming. Then the boy was presented with a cupcake with two candle and told to blow them out. Of course the microphone with the amplifier cranked was placed just behind the candles. Despite this he was able to blow them out and almost pushed himself off the ground …… YUM. Houston, we have partial lift off.
Participants were also shown how easy it is to make or pervert electrodes. A garage sale cutting board once washed and sanitized can be covered with metal duct tape with a wire attached to the handle becomes a electrode that can be put under butt cheeks, under bare feet for standing, a lint trap used for washing machines to prevent drains from clogging looks like a condom that you could roll onto a dick. Scouring pads used for cleaning dishes can be fitted under butt cheeks, and when used with a butt plug can cause involuntary self fucking. Metal chip bag clips are great for ball sac attachments. Metal filleting gloves give that hands-on touch to your play.
At dollar stores you frequently find copper and brass “steel wool”. The way its supplied makes it easy to use like a ball stretcher … The list can go on and on – the only restriction is your imagination and conductivity and of course never above the waist.
One of the items that most also find expensive is electro conductive gel, a simple solution is to use lube – a non silicone is preferred, the trick is to add salt. For a 16 oz bottle I recommend 1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon of salt dissolved in 1-2 teaspoons of warm water then thoroughly mixed into the bottle of lube. Be sure to label the bottle, as fucking with salted lube is sure to burn.
During the rest of the seminar I concentrated on the use and managing of 3 different cattle prods, how they differ in manufacturing and circuitry and the differences on how they feel as a result. I also showed how to warm up a sub by creating voltage dividers with hankies and showing how a prod can be modified to reduce the voltage, making some of them adjustable.
The second seminar I presented was titled Risk Management Is Not Only For The Workplace. In this seminar several participants were guided through risk management theory and then risk managed a typical day to day scenario involving typical home dungeon spaces and real life.
If you have a interest in electro play or electro torture please feel free to contact me.
Unfortunately most of the photos did not turn out – here are the ones that were recoverable.
More photos will be available soon on the MLO website. When they are up, I will post a direct link here.
Last weekend my boy joe was re collared as my slave and will now be called slave Joe. I have heard many stories of how slaves cope with their former Master’s passing away. Here is a writing that slave Joe did which explains part of our process of Transferring of Ownership – Master to Master. My hope is that those of you that have lost your Masters or Sirs find hope in what slave Joe has written here and that life as a slave or boy can continue for you even under these very difficult circumstances.
“November 22, 2011
By Master Chuck’s slave Joe,
Transferring of Ownership – Master to Master
Transition: The process or a period of changing from one state or condition to another.
i had never released myself from my voluntary servitude to Master Dan. Even with Master Dan’s passing my slave heart was still owned by Master Dan.
Master Chuck saw this within me, realizing that my journey with Him as my Sir required a process of transition. Master Chuck as my Sir prepared His boy joe over the past 2 years for this transition. A process not rushed but taking its time with an end goal in mind….to become Master Chuck’s slave Joe. With Master Chuck, i worked through the understanding a slave cannot give full submission and obedience to Two Masters. i first had to understand the gifts that my former Master gave me….the ability of submission and obedience to the right Master. Accepting that Master Dan prepared me to serve a new Master in the future as He knew my voluntary servitude could not end with Him.
However, this could not happen until the time was right for me. Over the past 2 years, i felt i had found my new Master in Master Chuck. For me to accept my place as Master Chuck’s slave Joe i first need to release myself from Master Dan. Master Chuck and i held an emotional transferring of ownership ceremony on Sunday, November 20, 2011 occurring 2 years from the passing of Master Dan and entering of Master Chuck into my life.
As part of the transferring of ownership, Sir had me bring Master Dan’s photo and His slave joe tag. i stripped down naked and kneeled before my Sir handing Sir the photo and slave joe tag. Looking into each other’s eyes W/we began. i had never mourned the passing of my former Master after He passed away. Through Master Chuck i was able to finally do this within the arms of my new Master. A truly wonderful Master who held me as i kneeled before Him helping me release all that I had held deep inside enabling me to start my new journey with Master Chuck. Looking at Master Dan’s photo i thanked Him for the gifts that he gave me as His slave then i said its time for me to release myself so i can now fully serve Master Chuck as His slave. Master Chuck thanked Master Dan for preparing me in becoming Master Chuck’s slave. Both Master’s and slave’s eyes were tearing from the emotions of Master Chuck receiving ownership of Master Dan’s slave joe.
As i looked up into my Master’s eyes, Master Chuck unlocked the boy collar lock taking it hand and locking Master Dan’s slave joe tag to it. Putting it a side, Master presented His slave with Master’s slave collar lock. Master Chuck looking into my eyes asked me if i would be His slave Joe. my response was “Yes Master”. With that Master inserted the key to unlock the slave collar lock but as Master tried to turn the key it would not click open. With O/our emotions running high there was a level of disappointment as it seemed W/we could not completed what Master had set out to do this day.
i felt Master Chuck’s disappointment when the key would not open the slave collar lock. As Master’s slave i thought only what can i do or how can i serve to bring Master pleasure.
The key was same for both the boy collar lock and slave collar lock so it should have worked. Even without being locked on my collar I knew i was Master Chuck’s slave Joe now. Master had given me joy and pleasure of becoming my Master and i as His slave wanted to return the pleasure. As W/we ended transferring ceremony i asked Master to see the lock which i took in my hand. As i held it, i reached for the lock key on my key chain wanting to try one more time to if the lock would open. Inserting the key i focused all my energy and thoughts to wanting the lock to open. i jiggled the key in the lock a couple times then gave it a turn hearing the ‘click’ as the lock opened in my hands. Master often mentions lines from the movie (Hairry Putter *) about the wand choosing the Wizard. In this case the slave lock chose the slave by having itself open in my hands with the words “slave Joe” and “Property of Master C” on each side of the lock. The smile and look on Master’s face said it all to me. This is what it’s about – a slave bringing pleasure to his Master. It was meant to be this way. Maybe not executed exactly the way Master may have planned it but the end goal was achieved in the way it was meant to be…the transition of ownership. I am now owned my Master Chuck.”
* intentionally misspelled to avoid having children accidentally find this blog.
Before I close this blog I have one more thing to add. Thank you Master Dan for the work you have done to prepare my slave for me. He will be well cared for.
First of all Congratulations to the new Western Canada Leather Sir 2012, Sir Marc and Western Canada leather boy, boy daniel/pup hoover on their win this past weekend.
Special thanks to Sir Jonathan, Sir Dakota, Ron, David and others for shuttling us around Calgary from to hotel, to the Eagle and various dinners. It was VERY much appreciated and we cannot give enough thanks to all of you!
A big thank you to the boys of Calgary and Edmonton for a wonderful dinner hosted at Sir Dakota’s (Western Canada LeatherSIR 2010)
Congratulations and thanks to Sir Scott and boy rene on their year as titleholders. I for one certainly know the work, heart and soul you have both put into your title year. Your Step Down Speech were an inspiration to myself and all who gave you a standing ovation.
It was great to spend time with our international title holders Sir Alan and pup Nitro, who apart from being some of the hottest men on earth, are also the most down to earth players in our community.
Western Canada had three excellent candidates for their contest – Sir Marc on the Sir side, boy berith and boy daniel on the boy side.
This competition said a lot about the leather community in Western Canada. In particular seeing the Calgary and Edmonton communities coming together, to celebrate their kinks and Leather throughout the contest.
I also want to thank the judges who made judging fun, the contestants who open up to us, and in particular one contestant that almost got me to piss myself with laughter when asked to describe the judges in pup language by barking the answer and barked a yip at me, symbolizing that I scare the shit out of him. I was particularly impressed with questions that asked the contestants how they would be taking care of themselves in order to avoid burn out as way too many title holders do, and how out they would be should they win.
Our International title holders and head judges Sir Alan and pup Nitro from Atlanta Georgia trying to keep warm after all it was -20 C (4F)
The weekend included
Here are some of the public and behind the scenes looks at the weekend.
There are a few more photos on boy iain’s blog
On Sunday after the brunch, boy joe was re collared as my slave. Which is why on the rest of this blog he will be referred to as slave joe. Here is the posting re his re collaring.
On the Sunday night boy iain arranged for a private dinner with myself and slave joe at Calgary’s Sky 360 a revolving restaurant on top of the Calgary tower.
Ok maybe we were noticed
And now about some play…We had decided to stay on till Monday in order to get some overdue play time, putting both of my subs in rubber sleep sacks, edging and tormenting them till they came.
Weekend Schedule
Friday Night November 18:
Saturday November 19:
Sunday November 20 – Victory Brunch
More Information More info about the International LeatherSIR/boy & Community Bootblack contests can be found at the official website: http://www.leathersir.com