My roots were showing at ECLSb 2011

Before we begin let me make this perfectly clear.  I don’t color my hair.

I remember as a kid going horseback riding, taking lessons at the ridding local riding stable in North Bay, being shown how to take care of horses by a big bearish man who owned the stables. The first gay porn magazine I bought was a series of cowboy pictures based on a 1970s porn movie. The image of a butch furry guy pined down and fucked is still burnt deeply into my psyche to this day.

One year for my birthday as a surprise my Partner Rocco was able to sneak leather into the house and made me a pair of tooling leather horse ridding chaps. Like almost all un-dyed tooling leather they were a pinkish tan brown in color and stiff as hell. With the help of a litre or two of Lexol leather conditioner, they softened right up and were flexible enough so that I could squat right down to the ground. With many hours of ridding and playing in the sun they gradually turned a dark brown.

As a gay man in my late twenties I once again took up horseback riding and training. I experimented with saddle bondage, pegging and hog-tying. Rocco and I built a dual play cabin the in woods my side looking like a tack room with a single sleeping cot and kerosene lanterns to light the room. Outside on the porch the railings which were strategically placed and de-slivered for bondage, looked like a ranch house, with rain barrels and a pump for the outdoor shower.

In 1992, LYNX (Leathermen Yearning for Northern Xcitement) was founded. The group rules were simple to get Chuck (OK Rocco as well) laid. Later the word Chuck was removed. That fall our first run based on our 90 acres of land just outside North bay attracted leather men from as far away as Winnipeg, Ottawa, and Toronto and resulted in a 2-page spread in The Leather Journal.

At runs like the Rochester Rams  a Spearhead runs, I was given the nick name Cowboy Chuck. Some found my moose horn bondage a bit intriguing but quickly found out that it was the simplest way to secure a boy to a cabin. Walking by my camp site at night passes by never knew who they would see being fucked while bound over some bales of hay to one of my saddles beside my camp fire.

 In later years after moving to Sudbury I had a boy who was into black leather. He talked me into going shopping for a vest and chaps at Doc’s Leathers. Trying on several pairs until all of a sudden there was a lump and a wet spot in the front of his jeans, and a big shit ass grin on his face. Like the sorting hat in Harry Potter the previously owned chaps had found the right Sir for the next journey. I also tried on a very wide thick harness, which went very well with my build. That night I had on of the hottest times I have ever had breaking in my new black leathers with boy Jim.

I have never been one to follow the crowd and to this day I still look at things in a different way, but from day one I have been clear as to who I am and what I believe in. In preparation for the Eastern Canada LeatherSIR competition I asked my former slave, now Sir, Dan and boy iain to advise me on what I should consider wearing. Both of them knowing me well suggested that at some point during the competition that I show the judges my true leather journey. For the interview portion to the surprise and possibly horrified of some of the judges, I showed up in my old trusty brown corduroy hat, my scratched up bush ridding chaps, my old faithful heavily worn (and well licked) boots with spurs, my brown vest and a LYNX T shirt. It was suggested by one of the judges that they wanted to just jump over the table and hand me some saddle soap. I explained that I like rugged well-worn leathers for my play.

To this day I prefer to play out doors, where you get dirty, muddy, and animalistic. Since boy Jim’s first black leather fuck, I have continued to grow expand learn, and ad to my BDSM DS life both in black and brown leather.

My advice to all who are thinking of entering Eastern Canada LeatherSIR is simple. Remember who you are and where you came from your history and what you value, don’t be afraid to show your roots, and get ready for the ride of your lives.

Master Chuck Eastern Canada LeatherSIR 2011

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Getting over what squicks you out

I regularly follow threads on Fetlife, and in particular, a discussion that is used as listener feedback for The Dark Side podcast

Here is my contribution and a link to the discussion on Fet Life so you may add your own thoughts:

What Squicks me and why?
What squicked me is a better question.  Fire play, cutting, branding, and diaper and age play.

Did it always squick you?
Up till when I saw demos of it with bottom who really get into it

What is the result of having that squick?
I did not seek out learning opportunities to learn how to do it myself.

Do you like or dislike the fact that it squicks you?
Well us control Doms don’t like being controlled even by our own Squicks.

Have you ever tried to do something to change the situation?
As a Dom the way I got over my squicks the same way I help my subs get de squicked. Being a “feedback slut” in this case can really work to my advantage.

When I’m in a gentle mood I have my sub that is squicked watch me play with a sub that is into that particular play. I have found that seeing a big wide smile the demo bottoms face helps them know how good it could feel. Most then ask to try it.

When I’m in an evil mood I do mind fucks. One of my slaves was really squicked out by needle play. The day before I casually mentioned I needed to go shopping for some alcohol, and some make up pads. We went shopping and had him hold the supplies while I continued to shop. Later that night I took the supplies and headed down to one of my playrooms and came up with a big smile and we went to bed. The next day I talked about a hot needle play scene that I once had over breakfast.That afternoon it was time to play. Once strapped down to my bondage table, I pulled out the alcohol, my piercing kit, which I made sure, he saw in the mirror and then blind folded him. I carefully put alcohol all over a make up pad and waved it by his nose so he would know it was alcohol, and then proceed to wash his belly, and cock. I then took out my sounds and proceeded to sound him.

From our post scene discussion …what was going through his mind, from the shopping.. to the breakfast.. to being bound on my table ..was that he was convinced he would be used for needle play. When his cock was sanitized he thought holly fuck he’s starting there. Then he remembered thinking if Master thinks I’m ready I will trust his judgment. He found the sounding rather dull but now reports that since he has mentally gone through the fear of needle play….. he now wants to try it. One more soft limit off his list.

My second post to Fetlife

Well I guess I’m not very good at following directions. Good Dom…. good Dom.

Here are the whys:

Fire play: My risk management brain did overtime.

Cutting: I tend to cut myself at work on sharp metal not particularly pleasant.

Branding: I once branded myself accidentally while doing hot metal work the smell of burning flesh in particular mine was originally the issue.

Needle play: As a kid I hated going to the doctors and having my mum almost in hysterics saying don’t worry it wont hurt too much.

Diaper and age play: Being a bio parent it almost felt like a betrayal of the relationship I had with my kids

Full body weight stomping: Afraid to break bones

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Well there goes my virginity

 Well there goes my virginity

As many of you know I tend to be a very private person. Three years ago I was asked by my then slave Dan to enter Eastern Canada LeatherSIR and Leatherboy competition with him. At that time I concluded that the timing was not right for me due being the patriarch of a very large leather family and with additional load of long term  volunteer commitments totaling up to 40 hours a month.

Last fall my terms on the board of directors of the Ontario AIDS Network and ACCESS AIDS Network came to a close after 9 years of work.

With 40 hours more capacity  per month I have decided to take at least 30 more hours for myself which will include working out more, and more play with my leather family, more time spent with my  partner and bio family. That will leave 10 hours a month for new adventures.

Well here goes the new adventure. Last Friday my boy iain and I entered the Eastern Canada LeatherSIR and Leatherboy competition and won. One of the concerns for me as Eastern Canada LeatherSIR for 2011 is the lack of competitors.

Here’s were the virginity part comes in.  I  am not social media person, I don’t use twitter or face book to name a few, nor am I a public person. All that said I now see value in sharing my leather life and journey with you and now a bit more easily with  my wonderful leather family.

One of the goals of this blog is to show what is involved in being a title holder so that more will come forward and volunteer to be ambassadors for our players community.

I also hope that this blog will also asist others to be more public and open so that we can all benifit from their knowlege and life experience.

Master Chuck

A newly de-virgin-ed blogger and Your Eastern Canada LeatherSIR for 2011.


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